Ever since I could remember, we would always be having a huge and grandiose celebration whenever this time of the year comes. Everyone would get so busy preparing for a very special dinner for an equally special person. The kitchen starts to smell oh-so-good as early as four in the afternoon as our family's specialties, which includes Tagie's best selling patatim, get cooked. Literally, everyone's hands get dirty just so we could beat the six in the evening dinner. Well, almost everyone. As he was just our over-all supervisor. He was all over the place; trying to make sure that we serve the best-tasting dishes and that all invited guests would have their seats.
As the clock nears six, he would be ready to meet and greet the guests. By that time, I would remember how good he looks as he has already changed in a well-ironed polo paired with either a black or brown slacks. He would spray his signature cologne and off he goes to enjoy the rest of the night.
But it has been different for the past two years. There are no more lavish parties; only a small gathering for his family. We no longer plan for the menu for several weeks prior to this time. We are no longer as happy and as excited for this day to come. It is just so different to celebrate lolo's birthday without him.
It is a fact that we miss him dearly on his birthday. Lolo Lliling may not be with us anymore but we continue to celebrate his legacy, life and love for all of us.
